ITS VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO GO ON.....

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ITS VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO GO ON.....

April 20th 2007 02:18

Its just as hard breaking up a friendship in a virtual sense as it is in the physical world...Well that's how I am finding it.....You think you know someone and then you dont...I guess it really boils down to knowing oneself first..and if you dont like yourself...then you really dont have anything to offer to anyone......I'm sitting here deleting all my old posts so there will be no remnant of me in cyberspace...and simultaneously writing a new post....I have to ask myself...why....self defeating behaviour....knee jerk reactions....venomous spite...it just isnt me....it really isnt....thanks for listening.......

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Comment by DuskDevi

April 20th 2007 04:06

Rugby World Cup 2007

...not just listening....hearing...

Hope to hear more.

Comment by Miss Nomer

April 20th 2007 04:37

dusk.......no more this is it..nearly finished deleting so many silly posts..x

Comment by David

April 20th 2007 04:58

Dear Miss Nomer ...

If I was in the capacity to advise you (which I'm not btw ...

Apparently you need a uni degree in psych to do that ...

But let's just set up a fictional, hypothetical situation for the purpose of the exercise, and assume/presume I was someone who people would listen to ...

I would really challenge you on these two statements of yours ...

I guess it really boils down to knowing oneself first..and if you dont like yourself...then you really dont have anything to offer to anyone......

I have to ask myself...why....self defeating behaviour....knee jerk reactions....venomous spite...it just isnt me....it really isnt...

And you would not be going anywhere until you answered every challenge I had ...

You could make as many knee-jerk reactions as you liked ... (like run for the door ...

All you're doing in the virtual world by deleting your posts and running away is exactly that ...

Yep, I'm not your average psych ... I'm not constrained by the business world or litigation ... (or any bullshit ...

And you would not get away with this bullshit in my consulting room ... I'd lock the door ... pull out a couple of bottles of grog ... and go ... I'm having a drink or 50 ... so if you don't join me while you talk honestly about this ... I'll drink the lot myself ...

I'd just go 'Nup. You ain't going anywhere until you've dealt with this ... whether you like it or not ...

Now, if you do go?

I'm not preventing you ...

But that's just how I'd deal with it in a real hypothetical situation ...

Oh, I don't charge for sessions either ...

David ...

Comment by Miss Nomer

April 20th 2007 05:04

Dear David..this blog was a monster I created and putting it to rest is some kind of perverse resolution..it isnt running....its more like sprinting in the 500 at the olympicsX

Comment by Lilla

April 20th 2007 05:58

From The Home Front
Enviro Warrior
Dream Herald
Esoteric Bookshop

Miss Nomer,

Noooooooooo!

I haven't been around much lately and am not aware of the situation, but I want you to know that I am totally saddened by reading this post. Why oh why are you so sad, what has upset you so much?

Is it something I've done?

I have been so busy in my own real world life, that I haven't been orbling much, but in my mind I have mapped out all the next chapters in our "stories." I even dreamt a scene at the temple where the artifact gets replaced on it's dias ... I cannot go there if you delete all your posts...?

I hope you don't dissapear completely, I enjoy your company.

Lilla ...

Comment by Tracy

April 20th 2007 06:32

Movies and Life

Hello Miss Nomer

I always read and learn much from what you write. It seems a pity to stop....I hope you carry on...

Tracy

Comment by Miss Nomer

April 20th 2007 07:45

Dear Lilla and Tracy....I will mss you both....but I know where to come for a coffee and a char.....maybe the blog should have been called...says too much....X

Comment by Lily

April 20th 2007 12:05

Ars Poetica

i hope you stay
and say more...

~Lily

Comment by Miswanderlust

April 21st 2007 01:27

Killer Beats
Ramble On
Hipnotherapy

Miss Nomer
Think less and write more please
Mis

Comment by Mrs M

April 21st 2007 02:29

Mum's Word

Hi Miss Nomer,

This may be a little late because you say you've deleted your posts....but would you burn a diary? Rip up old letters?

Love & stuff
Mrs M

Comment by Candice

April 21st 2007 03:32

Hi Miss Nomer,

I'm sorry you feel this way. I for one have always enjoyed dropping by your blog site. It sometimes worries me that I'm posting all this stuff for the world to see, and I tend to steer clear of anything tooooooo personal, but I guess that's what blogging's all about. It's an online journal, and like a written journal, it's sometimes best not to reflect too much on what you've already written because our thoughts and emotions change so often.

Anyway, I see you have a more recent post so I hope that's a good sign!

Comment by Bryn

April 21st 2007 05:16

Horrorphile

First time here ... so many blogs, so little time ...
Not entirely sure what your blog was even about to be brutally honest ... but it seems you will be missed. Being a writer can be lberating, but maintaining consistency can be taxing, I know ...
Good luck in the "real world" ...

Comment by Damo

April 21st 2007 09:04

Sorry to see you go if that is what you have finally decided.

Comment by Miss Nomer

April 22nd 2007 06:14

Dear Mis and Lily and Damo and Bryn...and Mrs Mthanks for the encouraging words....Bryn my blog has been about not much in particular and a lot of things...I have deleted countless posts....ones that made me feel too exposed....but I have left some up....and I will see how I feel if I will continue...if I do it will probably be more random...not ever day.....I guess it all became too confronting on lots of levels..............X

Comment by Kleonaptra

April 24th 2007 07:23

Kalikapsychosis

Dont stress please....see how many people love you? Ive found so much comfort here in like minded people that I never knew existed....Have I mentioned I adore your vortex?

Comment by Miss Nomer

April 26th 2007 07:09

Dear kleo...thank you for your words....i love my vortex as well, a very intelligent gifted man made it for me....one of the nicest gifts I have ever received xx

Comment by D. Armenta

April 30th 2007 19:32

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I've been gone awhile too, but I can feel your angst in these later posts. Please don't go, and don't erase your past posts. They're like old photos, a little slice of time that you can go back to and learn from--good or bad.